Intombazane ye-12 iyasiza unina ukuthi abelethe kodwa izinto azihambi ngendlela ehleliwe - SANTE PLUS MAG

Intombazane encane ye-12 isisiza unina ukuthi abelethe kodwa izinto azihambi ngendlela ehlelwe ngayo

Empeleni, amantombazane awavunyelwa ekamelweni lokulethwa. Kule ntombazane ye-12 iminyaka, kuyisimangaliso ngoba uzokwazi ukuya khona futhi ngisho nokuhlanganyela ekuzalweni komfowabo omncane. Kuyindaba ehambayo nengavamile.

Ukubeletha kuyisenzakalo esibuhlungu, esizama nokukhulula ekuphileni komfazi. Uma kulindeleke kakhulu omama esikhathini esizayo, uma kufika usuku D, usizi olubi lubacindezela. Uma usuku lokubeletha lufika, yonke into ixhunyiwe futhi imibuzo eminingana idlula engqondweni yomama.

Ngosuku lokuzalwa kukaDede Carraway, kwakungekho lutho olubonisa ukuthi ushintsho olungakaze lwenzeke luzobona ukukhanya kosuku. Wayesehlelile kakade konke ukulethwa kwakhe futhi akazange acabange ukuthi lolu suku luzophendulwa umuntu, eduze naye ngokungeziwe.

Lesi sinyathelo sasivela kumgogodla wezinkinga zezinkinga wesayensi wezokwelapha futhi wenza wonke umuntu ajabule. Ngenhlanhla othile ubekhona lapho ukuze athathe le nkumbulo eyingqayizivele ezofaka uphawu umndeni kuze kube phakade.

Lapho indodakazi kaDede, uJacee, eneminyaka engu-12, engena ekamelweni lokudiliva, wayenokwesaba okulodwa: ukulahlekelwa ukuzalwa komfowabo omncane. "Ngaqala ukukhala ngoba ngangicabanga ukuthi ngeke ngibone ukuthi uzalwa ngoba ngisemncane kakhulu" ngikhathazekile intombazane emakrofoni. Izindaba Manje. Kodwa kwakungabalwa ku-Dede's gynecologist, uDkt. Wolf, owayesehlele ukumangala ngeJacee encane.

Akekho oyedwa noma ababili, esikhundleni sokuhambisa abantu kanye nokukhipha isikhala seJacee ukuze bakwazi ukuya khonanokubelethaUDkt. Wolf uye wahlongoza okuthile okusha. Wabuza uJacee ukuthi uzomsiza yini eze nomfowabo omncane emhlabeni.

UDede noJacee abazange bamamukele ngokushesha. Kuyiqiniso ukuthi le ntombazanyana ayisetshenziselwa ukubeletha. Kodwa udokotela waqinisekisa umama noJacee naphezu kokungabaza kwabo futhi ekugcineni bamsiza ukuba abelethe ingane yakhe. Umcimbi omkhulu wentombazane encane okwadingeka ivuselele umbelethisi ngosizo lodokotela.

"Wangivumela ukuba ngiphambuke futhi ngiphume umntwana ... bekufana nokudlala udokotela futhi lokho kwakuyiqiniso. Ngangikhathazeka kakhulu, "kukhumbula uJacee.

Futhi ukulethwa kukaDede akulula kakhulu. I-epidural yakhe ayizange isebenze ngakho-ke yahlupheka ubuhlungu obukhulu. Kodwa ubuso bukaJacee ukumsiza ukuba abelethe bamnika induduzo ayidinga. Lapho kufika isikhathi sokukhululwa, uDede wazala umfana wama-3 kilos nama-170 amagremu okuthiwa uCayson Carraway.

"Ukubona imizwa ebusweni bukaJacee kwangenza ngafuna ukukhala. Ngizokhala lapho ngikhuluma nje. Kwakungumzuzu omuhle kimi, "etshela Izindaba Manje.

Ungalungiselela kanjani ukulethwa?

Ukulethwa kudinga ukulungiselela. Ukubhekana nalokhu ukucindezeleka kanye nomzamo owenziwe ngumama, kubalulekile ukuba uhlome amathuluzi futhi welule iseluleko ukuze ulungele usuku olukhulu. Imikhakha eminingi kanye nemisebenzi ingalungisa ukubeletha okufana nalokhu:

  • I-Sophrology
  • Ukuzindla
  • Ukuzivocavoca umzimba
  • Yoga
  • Ukuzivocavoca kwama-Aquatic
  • Ukuzibulala


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